Somebody that you used to know...

“we accept the love we think we deserve.” 
― Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

FAITH.

You put your faith in people, places, and yourself and it breaks in a day. 

SPOILER ALERT!! No it does not.

Fidelity is crushed over a course of time, you see the signs but you ignore because you accept the love, ignorance, lies, that you think you deserve.
You see the relationship slipping out of your hands perhaps you wait for the day when you will be paralyzed and will be left with absolutely no vanity. That my friend is a very stereotypical issue.

I see girls and guys with a broken heart everywhere, but girls get more condolences not because they cry more or they suffer more perhaps are judged more. A dear friend of mine recently got dumped. She was head over heels crazy for the guy. College sweethearts, years of relationship and then the girl finds out that the guy has been dating another girl. Every time she met me, she used to cry, either because the guy didn't pick up her phone after she tried calling him for 50 times in a row, or the guy fought with her because she didn't call him for 50 times in a row. 
I knew it from the very beginning that the guy was scandalous. I am sure all of you know such girls and guys. You might be one of them.

Why do You bury your head in sand when you see all these signs, and when do You actually realize that everything the guy did was a sign that he never loved You.
Signs such as:

• You call him and he won't pick up your call, reason: busy with friends, family, meetings, matches.He calls you, you are not able to pick up, reason: taking a bath. The guy blasts, abuse you, shout at you, and then you end up saying sorry( applause, you are sorry for  taking a bath...) and he disconnects the call, you call him back and he won't pick up your call for a long time. 

• You want to meet him and he  is busy with a lot of forthcoming jobs, you accept and  stay back home. He wants to meet you and  you want to stay back home to tranquilize or something, he will go ballistic again. And then you lie to your family and friends and manage to hang out with him.

Giving your friends the lucidity that even you do not trust,  Lying to everyone around you to keep that one person happy and  the guy keeps tormenting you howbeit you are still willing to be in your comfort zone, on the grounds that you are too scared to step out of that zone.
You are too scared of the void in your life where you cannot call someone in the middle of the night and  talk nonsense. As a matter of fact, even the guy you are dating might not entertain your mid night calls most of the time. 
Indian girls are mostly worried that now that they have already lost the physical and social dignity, will they be approved by the society. As a matter of fact, the society is bothered, they need something to babble about. 
Suggestion: Girls should dump the guys at the first sign of deception. May be not first but at least at the first sign of  repetitive idiosyncrasy.

To thank god, I married the love of my life, but i can very well relate myself to all the girls out there, because like any other relationship , me and husband were sceptical if the society or family will accept us or not. We didn't want to lead each other on the road where we will be deserted, but we were late to think so. We were already in love; however we tried calling it off, but the pain was so strong , the pain of feeling the void in your body, heart, mind, life, every friggin thing. Imagining the pain last for days, months, gives me shivers, when i could not handle the pain for more than few hours. 
I want every guy in this world to be like my husband when it comes to relationships. Honest!